Monday, August 22, 2011

I Don't Fit In...

I feel like I don't fit in anywhere. I don't fit in with my hometown friends because they are all off at college, having fun and hanging out every day. I don't fit in at work because I am still a student. I especially don't fit in with other military wives because I don't have any kids nor do I want any right now. I am having a really hard time trying to find my place SOMEWHERE and it is just not happening. It is making me really sad. Like every day sad. I am starting to think I am depressed...

6 comments:

dana marie. said...

Keep your head up! I feel that same way you do, but everything will be okay. God's just trying to show you who your "real" friends are! :]

Mrs G said...

aww I know how you feel. I could have written this post....I wish we lived closer and then we could be friends! I really hope things start looking up for you, being depressed is so depressing :P I wish I could help. *hugs*

ghoffarth said...

this makes me sad!! i feel the same way too, though....everything except for the military part just cuz i'm not a military wife or any kind of wife. but hey, i know we never really talked during HS but you're more than welcome to send me a message here (if that's possible...lol) if you wanna do something short and sweet like meet up for coffee or something. it'll all get better, i promise you :) just keep your head up

Shea said...

I know everyone is saying similar things...but I feel the same way! My friends from high school are still into drinking/partying every weekend...which I'm NOT. My college friends all moved away to distant cities. My co-workers are considerably older than me. And my husband is an airline pilot who away for most of the week. It's pretty crappy =(

But that's why I recently started a blog...hopefully it will keep me somewhat busy!

Mrs. J said...

Awe, hugs. Sometimes I feel like this too :( I'm married and at college, 5 hours away from hubby. We don't want kids... literally all of our friends and family members are pregnant right now. It's so tough. Is there a website for finding just friends?? I need one!!!

Carmen said...

Keep your head up girlie! There are wives out there who don't have kids, you just have to put yourself out there a little bit. I felt like that too though when I first moved to the base because I didn't know anyone. But! I did meet some bloggy friends that lived in the area and barely any of them had children. So, hopefully you will run into some new people if you are living with the hubby!