Thursday, August 11, 2011

Friends?

I feel like I have been a super bad blogger lately. I just have not been inspired to write. Needless to say, I am in a mood.... It has been really hard to make friends down here and it's really bumming me out. I get super jealous when T goes out with his friends because I have nobody to call up and hang with really fast. It's pretty lame  I also really want to find another job because if one more person says "You're still here?!" I will seriously flip (I work at the community college I used to, and still, go to)

Anyway, these big parts of my life, Friends and Work, are totally sucking right now. So I need your help ladies, how did you make friends at your post?

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I feel you there girl. I'm having the hardest time making friends here, and I can't even find a job to give me at least something to do. I wish there was some magic word that would just make friends appear! Sorry I don't have any advice or suggestions :( just know that you aren't alone. Hang in there! :)

Danielle, VA Beach Photographer said...

Have you thought about working somewhere in the mall where you can work with people your age and that have your same interests? For instance…I work at Charlotte Russe and that is where I met all my friends when I first moved here. :) Hope that helps! Hang in there!

Kelsey Cunningham said...

I know how you feel. Now that I moved home and my friends from high school are all moved away, I can't stand not having people to hang out with. I can't wait to find a job that allows me to meet new people! Maybe you can even try meeting fellow bloggers from your area! You never know, they could turn out to be great friends!!

xo,
Kels

Brittney said...

I know the feeling girly! Making friends is hard but you just have to put yourself out there and be outgoing! :) I made alot of my friends through blogging, fb and just meeting neighbors in military housing. Once I started working I met more people as well. Don't get discouraged though cause it does take time. I have now lived in Virginia for an entire year, (can you believe that?) and I can count my friends out here on one hand! But as I always say, quality is better than quantity and they have really been here for me the past few months with my hubby deployed. Maybe if you get involved in volunteering on post or start going to frg meetings you can meet some other wives from his command. I hope it works out, and dont give up. God will put good people in your life when you least expect it. :) And you always have us bloggy friends for moral support!

Unknown said...

I know how you feel. It is hard, but I have made friends through blogger as well as FB. Join support groups on FB and you may be able to find wives in your area. Too bad we live on seperate sides of the country, because I'm sure we would get along! :) Like Brittney said, don't forget about your bloggy friends, we are always here for you!